https://kk.org/thetechnium/68-bits-of-unsolicited-advice/

    Everyone is shy. Other people are waiting for you to introduce yourself to them, they are waiting for you to send them an email, they are waiting for you to ask them on a date. Go ahead.

    When you are young spend at least 6 months to one year living as poor as you can, owning as little as you possibly can, eating beans and rice in a tiny room or tent, to experience what your “worst” lifestyle might be. That way any time you have to risk something in the future you won’t be afraid of the worst case scenario.

    当你年轻的时候,花至少6个月到一年的时间尽可能地过着贫穷的生活,尽可能地少拥有,在一个小房间或帐篷里吃豆子和大米,去体验你“最糟糕”的生活方式。这样的话,任何时候你必须在未来冒险,你就不会害怕最坏的情况。

    The more you are interested in others, the more interesting they find you. To be interesting, be interested.

    你对别人越感兴趣,他们对你越感兴趣。要有趣,就要有兴趣。