2020.7.28
There is no sufficient value if just proposing questions. It can become more valid if I start thinking “how to solve these questions”, and this is so-called “constructive advice”:
- Is this the issue important? If no, ignore it. If yes, then think:
- What can I do to try to solve it? If you can think of a solution, do it immediately; if there is no obvious solution, then think:
- What can I do to improve my understanding of it? what is the the whole picture backgroud? When should I arrange the research? Put it in the anxiety basket and think about it when available free, or ask others for advice.
只提问题是没有价值的，只有当你的思维开始转向「如何解决」时，这才是真正有效的「建设性意见」。
1）这个问题重要吗？重要进入2，不重要就不用管。
2）我可以做些什么，来试着解决它？能想到解决方案，立刻去做；想不到，进入3。
3）我可以做些什么，来增进对它的理解，更好地把握问题的全貌，以寻求解决方案？如果有，安排时间去做；如果没有，把它丢入「焦虑篮」里，待有空的时候再去思考，或是向别人请教。
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