3-15日阅读

‘Allen v. Farrow’ documentarians(纪录片制片人) zoom in on Soon-Yi Previn。 Episode charts early stages of Woody Allen’s relationship with Soon-Yi Previn


The HBO docuseries “Allen v. Farrow” returned for its second installment Sunday night, focusing on the early stages of director Woody Allen’s relationship with Soon-Yi Previn, the daughter of his then-girlfriend(那时的女友), Mia Farrow. Farrow discovered the “affair(出轨,事件),” as Allen called it, when she found explicit (坦率的、详尽的)photos of Previn at Allen’s apartment just seven months after her high school graduation.
Farrow and Allen’s relationship was already under great strain(竭尽全力,拉紧,紧张) because of an unhealthy power dynamic(动态的,相对的,动力), according to the series, as well as Allen’s alleged(声称的) inappropriate(不合适的) behavior toward their young daughter, Dylan. In 1992, 7-year-old Dylan told Farrow that Allen had sexually assaulted(攻击,骚扰) her. The accusation(指控,指责) became a central component(内容,组成部分) of Farrow and Allen’s contentious(有争论性的) custody(监管,保护) battle
Allen, now 85, and Previn, 50, issued(发行) a joint(相关的) statement(陈述,声明) last week accusing(指责) the documentarians of “surreptitiously(秘密地) collaborating(通敌,勾结) with the Farrows and their enabler(促使的人)s to put together a hatchet(段斧) job riddled with falsehood(虚假谎言)s.” Allen has consistently(一致地) denied(否认deny) the assault allegations(声称,宣言,主张). The series — which features interviews with Mia Farrow, 76, and Dylan, 35



How to deal with an oversharer who has a very active Facebook account


Dear Amy: My mom frequently “shares” things via social media that she has no right to share。

She’ll take a picture that we have posted on Facebook or Instagram and post it herself; (almost as if she was the one who took it), often relaying the story of the picture as if it’s her own — basically “stealing” it and reposting it herself

Recently, she posted on Facebook about my and my fiance’s wedding date, stating(陈述,说明), “So excited for a wedding month wedding!” and tagging us.

This was before we (the actual couple) had even announced it.

I told her to take it down and explained about what a violation(违背,侵犯) it was.

She eventually said she understood where we were coming from and took down the post, but within the same day posted a funny story about OUR (meaning mine and my fiance’s) dog that I had told her.
Neither of us had shared that on social media, ourselves. It was via phone conversation. We live across the country.

I know the easy answer is to not post what we don’t want shared, but she’ll post things we tell her via phone, too.

It’s hard for her to be an empty-nester(空巢老人). But I want her to understand that the only way we’ll tell her about things is if she can respect that we don’t want it “shared” with the world.
If I don’t talk to her or tell her about our lives, she lays in a huge guilt trip about how she “doesn’t even know us anymore.”
— Too Much Sharing